Autistic Ways Of Seeking and Sharing Connection Card Deck

Description

Autistic Communication Cards

50 A6 cards

Communication is about far more than spoken words. Autistic people often connect, communicate, and build relationships in ways that are meaningful within autistic culture but frequently misunderstood by non-autistic communication partners.

The Autistic Communication Cards provide a practical introduction to over 50 autistic communication and connection styles, helping professionals, families, educators, and autistic people recognise the purpose behind interactions that are often overlooked, misinterpreted, or viewed through a deficit lens.

Developed from contemporary autism research, autistic-led literature, lived experience, and clinical practice, the cards explore topics including echolalia, information sharing, parallel and tangential connection, conversational deep dives, object-oriented attention, silent bids for connection, collaborative processing, sensory communication, flow state communication, and many other authentic autistic ways of relating to others.

Designed as both a learning resource and conversation starter, each card explains a single communication concept in an accessible, evidence-informed format, making them ideal for professional development, university teaching, supervision, team discussions, parent education, and self-discovery.

Rather than teaching autistic people how to communicate more like non-autistic people, these cards help others better understand autistic communication through a neuroaffirming lens. By recognising and responding to autistic communication styles, we can reduce misunderstandings, strengthen relationships, and create environments where authentic communication is recognised, respected, and valued.